Great Reads for Moms: January ‘10 Edition

I am so proud to say that I tackled eight books this past month which is the most I have read in a very long time. I imagine that my reading will slow down this month between our home renovation and all that is going on with our family this month, but I am still planning to set some time aside to sneak in a few cups of vanilla chai tea, a library book, and a soak in the tub. Just be careful in the tub with the library book. It can be a very expensive combination, as I have unfortunately discovered!

Here are my top picks for the month of January! Just as an aside, I read many more  books than are just featured here, but try to feature the ones that are my absolute best picks of the month here. If you want to read more, please feel free to friend me on GoodReads! My username is momadvice and I am always happy to connect with people there too!

Still Alice by Lisa Genova-

My great-grandmother suffered from Alzheimer’s so I was very familiar with the topic and the emotional toll that it can take on one’s family members when they suffer from this disease. What I did not know was that over a half million people in the United States alone suffer from early-onset Alzheimer’s and that it is possible to suffer from this disease at a much earlier stage in your life than I had ever imagined.

Alice Howland is a cognitive psychology professor at Harvard and is known for her great intellect. She is admired not only by the other faculty members, but by her students for her amazing ability to captivate an audience when speaking about what it is she is most passionate about. Her husband is a scientist, and together they have collaborated on book projects and have a mutual love for each other and the intelligent and scientific dialogue that they can have together.

When Alice starts becoming confused and begins losing her words, forgetting what she is supposed to teach on, and even forgetting where she lives when she goes for a run, she blames it on menopause and decides to contact her doctor about her memory loss.

After going through screening, it is determined that Alice, at the age of fifty, is suffering from early-onset Alzheimer’s.

Alice’s quick spiral into memory loss is heartbreaking and her story is especially poignant because she is the chosen narrator of the story. At times, as the reader, you can even become confused along with Alice as scenes are repeated and her family member’s begin to lose their names, or she believes she is talking to strangers when they are well-known characters throughout the book.

The book sheds light on a very real disease in a way that can only be told through the narration of Alice. Although Alice is slipping, she is “still Alice,” even when her family feels her mind is very far away.

This book pulled at my heartstrings in a way that I can’t describe and has made me thankful for the beautiful memories that my mind can retain. It is a wonderful reminder how essential memory is in our daily lives and how important it is to love and respect those who are suffering from Alzheimer’s.

The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson-

The book opens with a scene straight out of a movie. A prominent rich man is sitting in his office clutching another framed exotic dried flower in his hands. He receives one each birthday, a gift that had been given to him each year by his granddaughter. The problem is that his granddaughter has been dead for forty years and he is still receiving this gift. Is it a message from the killer meant to open the wounds, the wounds that he will never know what has happened to his granddaughter?

Henrik decides to take matters into his own hands and hire a down-on-his-luck investigative reporter and pay him a ridiculous sum of money to write his family’s life story and do his best to discover what happened to Harriet, his granddaughter, so that he can finally know the truth.

Mikael, the reporter hired, goes into the investigation with low expectations of solving the case. What could he possibly find that had not been analyzed over and over by the police and by Henrik himself?

When teamed with a genius hacker, Lisbeth Slander, though they quickly close in on the case and discover twisted and dark family secrets that will leave you on the edge of your seat. It all unfolds with the gripping conclusion of forty years of lies and twists that will have you guessing whodunit until the end.

The characters are pure magic together and their two stories are interwoven and create dynamic chemistry when paired!

This book is a fantastic read that I could not put down. I had a hard time in the beginning getting through some of the family history, but all of those details came into play and made it worth that dry bit of reading for the shocking conclusion.

Editor’s Note- There is graphic language, sexuality, & violence in this book.

The Girl Who Played With Fire by Stieg Larsson-

After reading, “The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo,” I was anxious to dive into this next book and find out how these characters would develop after such an exhilarating ride with the first book.

The relationship with Blomkvist and Salander ends within the opening pages as Salander realizes that she has fallen in love with Blomkvist and finds him arm-in-arm with his on again/off again lover on the street. She mistakes their history as a relationship that has continued and decides to cut off all contact and her relationship with Blomkvist.

Blomkvist, meanwhile, is at the center of the media after cracking the case in the last book and is unsure of how to address being the focus of the media attention when he once was the interviewer. He is also confused by his sudden end of the relationship between him and Lisbeth and seems to be living his life in a state of limbo.

When he decides to run a story in his magazine though on a sex trafficking operation between Eastern Europe & Sweden, he opens a can of worms that he never thought he would.

The story that will be published will bring to the center of the controversy many of the prominent officials in the Swedish government and endangers many careers and lives with its publishing.

As the story is about to go to press, two investigative reporters are murdered and the accused murderer? Lisbeth Salander.

Lisbeth goes into hiding and her perspective is missing from the story for a good two hundred pages as Blomkvist firmly believes in Salander’s innocence and decides to do his own investigative sleuthing to discover who the true murderer is.

Anticipation builds up as more and more evidence points in Salander’s direction, but the book takes you on a surprising journey through Salander’s past as it comes to the cliffhanger ending.

The only fault with this book is that you have to wait for the next one to find out the fate of Salander and Blomkvist.

Editor’s Note- There is graphic language, sexuality, & violence in this book.


Remarkable Creatures by Tracy Chevalier-

Remarkable Creatures is a beautiful historical fiction story based on the real life story of Mary Anning and Elizabeth Philpot. These two women pioneered the uncovering of fossilized creatures and lead many of the scientific discoveries of the nineteenth century.

Set in the city of Lyme, Mary is a girl who has been unusual her whole life. Her uniqueness begins after being struck by lightening as a baby and she continues to be considered different by her community because of her unusual habit of searching for fossils on the beach… a trait that has been passed down to her by her father.

Elizabeth, a middle-aged woman who has never been married, and her sisters move to the town and each take to their own hobbies. All of the sisters have the usual hobbies of gardening, keeping home, and baking… all of them except Elizabeth. Elizabeth soon finds her own hobby of fossil discovery, although she lacks the eye of training that Mary possesses.

An unlikely friendship between two women of very different social classes form because of their mutual interest in these fossils as they make rare scientific discoveries by gathering these bones.

When a man comes between the two women, neither can put their egos aside to apologize and they are left to their discoveries alone. When Mary discovers something that their community thinks cannot be made by God’s hands, the only person that can preserve her reputation is Elizabeth, because of her social standing.

Will Elizabeth put aside her feelings to defend her friend’s honor or will she allow nature to take its course and discredit Mary’s standings in the scientific community?

I found the book to be a fast read and a very interesting look at a time when talk of fossils challenged the very belief system of people and a time when women were never intended to pioneer anything other than the keeping of their homes. It was a great book and I look forward to reading more books from Chevalier!

True Colors by Kristin Hannah-

I read Firefly Lane last year and was anxious to dive into another Kristin Hannah book. Since I had a flight this week, I thought this would be the perfect light read for my trip, and I was right.

This book is about the three Grey sisters who lost their mother when they were very young and the unfolding of their lives since their mother’s death. Their father, Henry Gray, seems to favor only one child and keeps his focus on making sure that their family upholds their ancestral heritage. His only concern is maintaining their appearance and reputation at all times in their town.

When Vivi Ann meets the true love of her life, their father is angry with her choice in choosing a rancher who is Native American and not from a “proper upbringing.” Vivi Ann follows her heart though despite her lover’s past and decides to make a commitment to him that will change their lives forever.

When a murder takes place in town, the first suspect is Dallas, Vivi Ann’s love, and everyone in the family is forced to choose sides and decide whether they believe Dallas to be guilty or not. With his difficult past and quick temper, could Dallas have been the killer?

The lives of all three sisters change as each sister decides her stance and the true secrets of each of their feelings. Their story is peppered with constant rivalry, the forgiveness that must be given, and the redemption that they must allow one another because of their sisterly bond.

I found the beginning of the book a little slow, the middle to be fast-paced with a fun twist, but the last quarter of the book really slowed down again for me.

I really enjoyed the character development of Vivi Ann and her sister Winona, and Noah, but Aurora’s voice was never heard in the book which would have definitely improved the story since it was about three sisters and not two.

Overall, it was a fast read that would be perfect to take with you when you travel or a fun summer beach read!

Disclosure: All of the links above are affiliate links and are provided so you can locate the books quickly and easily. Feel free to order a book, but we encourage utilizing the library system and buying me a latte instead.  Then we both would be really happy and we could have our own little book club together! Wouldn’t that just be so much more lovely? Happy Reading!

What has been in your book stack this month? Feel free to share your book recommendations or feedback on any of the books that have been mentioned above! I love getting new suggestions for my book pile!

An Apron Full of Giveaways 02.09.10

gock’s frocks, $22

Thanks so much for swinging by for our Apron Full of Giveaways! Each week we share a link list of great contests to enter all over the web. Below are the contest links to our contests and to yours! If you are hosting a contest please link it up below. I would love to point our readers over your way!

Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them!

Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).” Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!

Good luck, everyone!

The Best Steakhouse Dining Experience on a Poor House Budget

About seven years ago, we lost the ability to run out and have dinner out whenever we wanted to. It began with a change in income… or a complete lack of income coming into our house. The decision to eat fancy dinners at home was solidified with the birth of our son and later our daughter.

As I became more acquainted with the kitchen though, we soon realized that dinners out just lacked that pizazz that we could easily get from home. The food was a bit better, (if the house was relatively tidy) the atmosphere was better, and we could spend a whole heck of a lot less and get a whole heck of a lot more.

It is funny, now even when we have help to watch our kids, we still gravitate towards eating at home. I remember having a gift card for a fancy restaurant in town and we ended up spending $75 on dinner. I looked across the table at my husband and he said, “It was good, but…I like your tilapia better.” Yeah, the tilapia that I buy for $4.99 a bag and prepare at home tasted better than the $25 of one fillet of tilapia plated in front of my hubby… sickening, isn’t it?

Pictured above is the dinner that my husband and I shared with no children on New Year’s Eve. For these fancy dinners at home, I break out our wedding china (of which we only own four place settings), get out the fine wedding stemware, and I splurge a little at the supermarket on ingredients I wouldn’t normally treat myself to.

As I was picking out our steaks behind the butcher counter, the lady that was weighing them for me told me that she was planning to buy a couple of them herself.

“Yes, we try to avoid dining out on NYE because the crowds are so bad, ” I shared with her as she packaged the meat.

She looked up at me smugly and said, “You know what we call going out to eat on NYE? My husband and I call it amateur night. Who would ever do that?”

We both giggled and I will now refer to NYE and Valentine’s Day dining out as that because it is so not fun to go out on those nights.

Don’t get stuck on amateur night, my friends, but do make it fun for yourself. Play with new ingredients, buy something pre-packaged that wouldn’t normally fit in your grocery budget, try a recipe that you wouldn’t normally “waste” your ingredients or time on, and throw on some good music to cook to.

Don’t make it the same old dinner that you usually do, but make it a delicious experience that you can treasure. I think having great ingredients and new recipes to indulge in makes cooking feel like fun instead of the same old dinner routine that I have to perform.

I am sharing our delicious menu that was absolute perfection for us that I hope will inspire a deliciously wonderful date night with your spouse! My husband said it was one of my finer moments in the kitchen and we still talk about how special that night was for both of us!  This dinner cost about $30 in ingredients (an entire bottle of fancy wine included), but we had enough leftover for two meals. You couldn’t get a dinner like this out for that price!

Steakhouse Steak Marinade (adapted from Recipezaar)

2 steaks (whatever is on sale and looks good)

2 tablespoon olive oil
2 garlic cloves, minced
2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar or white vinegar
2 teaspoons yellow mustard
2 tablespoon soy sauce
Freshly ground pepper

Mix all ingredients together and place steaks into freezer bag with marinade overnight. This makes enough marinade for two large steaks.

Below is an approximate timetable for how long to cook your steaks for a medium steak. I opt for a little shorter cooking time and prefer my meat to be medium rare. If you are unsure, a meat thermometer is the best gauge for the perfect steak!

Grilling Steak Timetable

Filet: 13-18 minutes

Ribeye, Boneless: 6-8 minutes

Ribeye, Bone-In: 9-12 minutes

T-Bone /Porterhouse: 14-16 minutes

Top Sirloin: 13-16 minutes

Strip, Boneless: 10-12 minutes

Cooking steak, to me, is not easy. I know it is not easy to a lot of other people too because I often get asked how to cook the perfect steak. Use the above timetable for steak as a loose guideline for how long to cook it. The best gauge for cooking will always be the scientific approach… a handy meat thermometer.

(Quick temperature guidelines: Rare is 120 degrees, Medium is 125 degrees, and Medium is 130 degrees)

More important than the degrees though is letting your meat rest. Don’t cut into it to check it when you pull it out of the pan. Give it plenty of time to let everything redistribute itself and then slice into it. That is the real secret to a deliciously juicy steak.

I love steak cooked out on the grill, but refuse to venture out there in the cold. Pictured above is my favorite tool for cooking steak and I got it at Goodwill! It is a cast iron grill pan that had rusted and been poorly cared for. I loved it up and got it in much better condition, and this is my favorite tool for cooking a beautiful steak without getting cold. I found one similar to it on Amazon, should you also be in the market for staying warm, and it costs less than $20!

Bella’s Rosemary Red Potatoes (adapted from Allrecipes Dinner Tonight Cookbook)

2 tablespoons butter, melted

1 tablespoon vegetable oil

8 small red potatoes, scrubbed and cut into wedges

1 tablespoon chopped rosemary

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon pepper

Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Mix together melted butter and oil; pour into a 9×13″ baking dish. Place the potatoes into the dish and stir until coated. Sprinkle with rosemary, salt, and pepper. Cover with aluminum foil. Bake in the preheated oven for 30 minutes or until the potatoes are tender. Stir potatoes to ensure even cooking. Yields four servings.

Pan-Fried Asparagus (adapted from Allrecipes Dinner Tonight Cookbook)

1/4 cup butter

1 tablespoon olive oil

1/2 teaspoon coarse salt

1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper

3 cloves garlic, minced

1/2 pound fresh asparagus spears, trimmed

Melt butter in a skillet over medium-high heat. Stir in the olive oil, salt, and pepper. Cook garlic in butter for one minute, but do not brown. Add asparagus and cook for five to ten minutes or until crisp-tender, turning asparagus to ensure even cooking. Yields two servings.

This dinner was served with a loaf of french bread (on sale), festive bakery cupcakes (on sale), and a bottle of red wine (guess what? ON SALE!!)

Looking for more ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day on a budget? Be sure to read our article on enjoying a frugal Valentine’s Day this year!

Do you dine at home for special occasion or dine out? What recipes do you like to prepare on special occasion nights? Please share!

Freebie Friday:February 5, 2010

It seems that my publishing while I was away didn’t happen for our weekly round-up of freebies! I am so sorry that this is getting up so late and just realized that this never posted. That will teach me to go to a blog conference and not bring my computer with me again!

Please leave a comment to thank our amazing freebie hostess, Heather from Freebies 4 Mom, for sharing  her freebie list with us each week. Her site offers so many freebies and deals for moms that it is  must-stop destination for browsing each week! We are so thankful to Heather for her help!!


Health & Beauty
Pampers Cruisers
Stayfree UltraThin Overnight

Food
Yogi Tea (send sample to a friend)
Denny’s Rewards (free burger & fries)
Spark Energy Drink
$10 Eat Better America coupon booklet

FEBRUARY
William-Sonoma Cooking Demos & Classes
5 – Starbucks free Kind bar samples
5-18 – Walgreens Diabetes Wellness Event (free blood glucose testing)
6 – The Home Depot Kids Workshop make a #20 Car Display 9-12
9 – Denny’s free Original Grand Slam 6am – 2pm
13 – Walmart Littlest Pet Shop Parade 11am – 2pm
13 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a Jewelry Organizer 10-11
15 - Long John Silver’s free crispy breaded pollock samples
23 - IHOP National Pancake Day 7am-10pm

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