A Patriotic Birthday Party & a Patio Party Giveaway
POSTED BY Amy at 7:00 AM

I don't know why it has never occurred to me before, but we decided to have a patriotic themed birthday party for my son's birthday this year. His birthday is just a few days after the Fourth of July and so we decided to host a backyard barbecue for our family and friends.

We kept the decorations simple and I tried to buy a lot of things that we could reuse for future parties. These paper lanterns offered a little festivity to our space and I found blue star garland to decorate around our patio doors.

To save on drinks, we used this tin bucket and filled it with a huge batch of birthday punch instead of cans of soda. For each of the kid's birthdays, I try to do a festive punch to go along with our food and a batch of strawberry punch was a perfect accompaniment to our fun little barbecue. I filled this tin clear to the top and my husband laughed and told me there was no way all of that punch would be drank. He was wrong and we had enough for one glass left at the end of the day. It is always amazing how quickly you can go through things like that!
Instead of buying paper cups, I got plastic cups in red & blue that we could use for all of our parties. The price was right at Walmart (in their summer supplies- only $1 for six cups). They will definitely come in handy for playgroups and future birthday parties.

I rolled all of the silverware in paper gingham napkins. I had yarn leftover in my yarn stash to use for tying the rolled silverware sets. When I hosted my last party, I found inexpensive sets of silverware at our wholesale club in the restaurant supplies. They aren't the best quality, but they work so wonderfully for occasions like this. Thrift stores also sell silverware and you can often find bags of it very inexpensively. Rolling these into sets made it easier for everyone to grab what they needed and kept the line for the food moving a little quicker.

Each year I make a little slide show for the kids that the family can view before we cut into the cake. Amazon sells songs for $.99 and I try to pick one great song to go along with their three minute movie. This year one of our son's favorite albums is Justin Roberts, "
Meltdown" and his, "It's Your Birthday!" song fit the bill perfectly. The grandparents love this and I think my kids watched this movie sixteen times before the guests arrived. There is nothing like seeing tons of pictures of themselves set to their favorite tunes to put a smile on their faces. I recommend saving this and putting it on when you need to get your party preparation done- it works like a charm!




I found these adorable mini burgers at Walmart and they had 24 in a package for $7.00. I got wheat and white rolls in the bakery and got a variety of cheeses and toppings to make a little burger buffet for our guests. We also grilled hot dogs for the kids, but I have to say the mini-burgers took center stage. People could really load their plates up with the sides or have a burger and a hot dog on one plate.
I served that Pesto Pasta Salad which was a hit again at another get together. I also found an amazing recipe for
Hot Potato Salad from
French Knots (hat tip to
Make & Takes for sharing this one) that had everyone talking because it was so different. I followed her recipe, but omitted the green onions and substituted those with fresh chopped flat leaf Italian parsley from our garden. I also added 1/3 cup of Parmesan cheese on top before I baked it and substituted the regular sausage with Italian turkey sausage to cut down on the fat a bit. By substituting with these flavors, it gave it more of an Italian flair and everyone really seemed to enjoy it!


In case you missed the post yesterday, this was the big birthday cake- an
Oreo Fudge Ice Cream Cake. The patriotic pinwheels were a steal at the Dollar Store. They had six in a package for $1 so I used three of these as a cake topper for his cake and cut them in different lengths to add a little pizazz to the cake. The best part about these is that when Ethan blew out the candles all of the pinwheels spun around too. I wish we were able to capture that in motion because it was really cute.

As our party favors, we gave each of the kids a bag with a pinwheel, glow-in-the-dark bracelets and little patriotic bracelets, and some candy all courtesy of the Dollar Store.


Recipe Highlights From Our Patriotic Party:
Pesto Pasta Salad (courtesy of "
The Farm Chicks in the Kitchen") and you can visit
The Farm Chicks Blog too!
3 cups bowtie pasta (about 8 oz)
1/4 cup pesto (Sam's Club has pesto for really cheap, if your garden isn't ready for pesto-making yet)
1/4 cup sour cream
1 cup chopped fresh tomatoes (about two medium)
1/2 cup halved pitted black olives
1/3 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1/4 cup pine nuts (optional)
Cook pasta as directed. Drain and rinse under cold running water and let cool. Place in a salad bowl. In another bowl, mix the pesto and sour cream together and add to the pasta, tossing to coat. Add the tomatoes, olives, parmesan cheese, and pine nuts and toss to mix. Serve.
Patriotic Strawberry Punch1 (2 liter) bottle strawberry-flavored soda (I found this at Walmart)
1 liter (half a bottle) Sprite or 7-Up
1 (12 ounce) can frozen lemonade concentrate
1 (12 ounce) can frozen pink lemonade concentrate
2 (1 liter) cans pineapple juice
Mix all the ingredients together for the punch. This will fill one large punch bowl or two smaller ones.
Playtex Gloves wanted to share about their products with us and offered to help us host our patio party if we would give their products a try. This year ,
Playtex gloves introduced three new gloves that help with everything from grilling burgers to cleaning up dirty dishes. The best part about all of this though was that they offered to host a patio party for one of our readers and send them their products too! I loved all of the products they sent, but have to say these purple gloves took the cake!
Playtex will be sharing with one of our readers a
$50 gift card to any grocery store of your choice and a set of their gloves for you to try! To enter, please leave a comment and tell me
one way you make preparing for your parties easier. Not required, but you could also share what you loved from my party...because I truly would love to hear your thoughts on our little traditions. Please leave your comment by
Tuesday (07/14) at
8PM EST!
Editor's Note- I hope that it won't bother you that I am now putting our name in the corner of our pictures. For some reason, it has always felt conceited for me to do this because I just didn't think my photos were worthy of crediting. Unfortunately, I have started to see my pictures being used without credit and it has become necessary to do this. I hope you understand!
Labels: Giveaways, Holidays, Recipes
263Comments:
FunkyFrum
"I cook early. Like very very early. And then I freeze what I can (cake included) so that closer to party day, I really have very little food set up to do."
"One way I make preparing for parties easier is starting at the end of the party and working my way back to today. I know that at the end of my party I'll want to clean up, so I make sure I have what I need for that. I'll need entertainment, both child and adult. I'll need food, serving dishes, plates, napkins, silverware, etc. Just in general work my way from having had a succesful party to what I need today to make it happen.
The benefit of doing this backwards is that it's much more difficult to forget things. By shaking up your routine way of thinking you really focus on each detail."
Amy @ Finer Things
"On my side of the family, birthday parties are potluck parties. My three kids are all summer birthdays, so we grill and my family members all bring a side dish. Works beautifully!
I love your birthday movie. How fun!"
amybee
"Love the patriotic party. My birthday is around the 4th too. When I was a kid, I always wondered why other kids didn't get fireworks on their birthday too. Another idea for a cake is one of those flag cakes with blueberries and strawberries on the top.
My tip is one you'll probably hear in a lot of the comments - do as much as possible ahead of time. Pick dishes that can be made ahead and leave as little to do at the last minute as possible."
"I love to be able to do a menu where I can make one dish a day and that helps the prep work so much! Also, if it's family invited, they usually offer to bring something to help w/ the food, and that helps lighten my load, too! :-)
~eunice
rsmile2u @dejazzd .com"
Strangeways
"I keep it simple by using fresh ingredients in simple salads. I'm also the pesto queen of our set and it's a staple at our parties. Easy to make ahead.I loved your birthday theme...the pinwheels and bracelets were a great idea!"
Jessica @ Pudget: Losing Weight On A Budget
"I one thing that keeps me sain is to always have my list of things to be done or puchased with me at all times. This way I can write down things I think of and cross them off when purchased or completed.
Love the patriotic Party!"
"I always try to make sure I have some time (at least 30 mins) to relax right before the first guests arrive.
Everything about your party looked wonderful!
sjloud at hotmail dot com"
"I just keep things simple. Make fun foods that people love. Nothing fancy. Keep decorations fun and simple.
Amy, I thought your food was fun and your decor was cool. It looked like an awesome party. I am going to try the cake for my son's birthday in a few weeks.
Thanks.
soccermom1995@hotmail.com"
MommySecrets
"Two tips:
1. Plan with friends when hosting a party, or host a double-birthday party with a close friend.
2. Plan party favors that relate to the party activities. For example, we had a "flying" birthday party for my 6yr old. The kids learned how to make 5 different styles of airplanes, and took them home as a party favor.
I really appreciate your step-by-step instructions, and I can't wait to make your pesto pasta salad!"
angie
"As with most any event, I find that making a list helps me to prepare for a party. I think more clearly 2 weeks before a party than 2 hours before, so I know if I consult my list on party day I won't forget a thing."
"Get your helpers involved. Getting for a party is more fun and less work if the whole family works together!
My favorite part of you party was the cake! :) I'm going to make it...it looks so good."
Alana
"I also make as many dishes ahead of time as I can. This really saves me from getting too stressed out on the day of the party. I have also learned to accept the help that is offered by family and friends when preparing things on the day of the party.
I loved the idea of sending home something with the guests.
Blessings,
Jodi
jodiweiser@yahoo.com"
Lisa
"Party planning starts early with a master list for food, decor, invitees, RSVP's, games - everything. The day before I set up the house by putting the tablecloth out, dishes out with a note of what goes in what dish, beverage station set up and more..."
Renee
"I start planning my party early, months before the actual date, and buy stuff on sale if possible, and I always keep a list of things I need and things I have already bought for the party on hand so I don't accidentally over spend or end up with more than I need."
sherri
"I've found that my best party hosting strategy is to avoid over planning. I like to think that I an provide entertainment or an activity for every minute of a party but my kids tend to enjoy their free time with their friends more than any game I can devise. As long as there's good food, good friends, and good weather we all have a good time.
Loved your use of sliders as party food. Less waste and easy service. I'll definitely consider that for our next party."
Adventures In Babywearing
"Amy, this party looks fabulous! We usually celebrate Carter's birthday on the 4th every year (his is July 10) but all our family was out of town this past weekend! SO I think I might be copying down some of these GREAT menu suggestions! And I would love to win... to make parties easier for us, I use cloth napkins and serve food items that I know will be great to make something else with the leftovers later on- like veggies and dip, and things we'll eat on long after the party.
Steph"
candydish
"My party tip is to have food items set out in a manner which is easiest for guests to carry and collect. For example, we almost always set out a drink station at the end of the food line so that people aren't struggling to carry drinks and silverware while serving themselves. It just makes it run a little smoother.
By the way, my fave part of your party was the drink idea....what a great timesaver and moneysaver! Your tin bucket is adorable...where did you get it from? Thanks! :)
~Candy"
Chris and Don
"I try to make as much food ahead of time as possible and then just do the last minute prep the day of.
I love your slide show idea. Great way to show how the kids have grown over the year."
The Grocery Guru
"Around my house, we usually have A LOT of family over for birthday parties, and to make it easier on myself, I delegate tasks to them. Our family is very close, and they are always willing to pitch in to get everything ready. It's fun to spend time with them and chat while we get everything together.
I love the paper lanterns you made for your party!"
Mary
"I write out a plan/schedule, with the goal of the schedule to time things so I am not running around like crazy right when the guests arrive. It helps keep me on track. I loved your patriotic cake and especially the toppers - they looked great!"
starlightmommy
"Right now one way I work this isn't the most frugal but I just order pizza or buy sandwich stuff. Little to no prep work.
starlightmommy (at) gmail dot (com)"
Emily
"I always pick a theme movie as a starting point for my parties-- my favorite thus far have been the Marie Antionette party (with lavish desserts) and the Waitress party (where everyone brought a favorite pie to share and vote on-- winner won an apron!)
I love that cake you made, I am going to have to try that!"
Dolphin Girl
"I love the video slide show idea! What a great way to highlight positives over the past year with your children! LOVE IT!
I prepare for parties by getting as much done ahead of time as possible. It is like I spend two days before so busy with party details, but then the day of, I can really enjoy the party because everything is done!
K. C.
kccuties AT gmail DOT com"
vandyrie
"I decorate the night before and start making food early. Also I love to makes lists and try to visualize the party in my head so I can see what we might need.
I love how you give away goodies at your party! Even little trinkets from the dollar store can be fun!"
Ashley
"I make as many dishes (or partial dishes) a day or two before the event in order to cut down on the amount of work I have to do on the big day - it tends to make the day more enjoyable if I'm not stressed trying to get everything done last minute!
I loved your pictures and ideas about using re-usable table settings! Goodwill is a great idea for finding some of these keys pieces. I think I'll probably pick up some of the summertime party packs from Walmart at the end of the season for next year (hopefully at a fraction of the price)!"
Happy Hectic Homemaker
"I always let the guest decorate their own cupcake as an activity. This saves money because I don't have to buy a fancy store decorated cake and time because I do not have to decorate one I bake. It also saves me the planning of an extra activity because decorating cupcakes is an activity in itself. the kids always love it too."
Nancy
"I prepare as much of the food as possible the day before the party in order to allow myself to enjoy my company. Nothing worse than hosting a gathering and being in the kitchen and missing out on the fun."
emerzim
"I try to do as much as possible the day before. This gives a good cushion of time for the things I inevitably forget."
Susan
"I never try new things for a party. I stick to things I know I will have all the stuff to make and know how long it takes. New stuff is for weeknights when I can have a mac and cheese back up!"
Windy
"I always have a plan and stick to it. I start preparing whatever items I can at the beginning of the week. Keep all of the "party items" together in one place so you don't have to run around looking for them. Make a LIST!
Love the birthday video!
I am going to try this for my children this year;)"
MamaFeelgood
"I make all salads a day ahead and then all I have to do is prepare the hot items. I also enlist help b/c I have learned that I can't do it all and I don't want to.
I love the punch and pasta salad from your party. In fact, I will be making both."
Amanda from Faith, Food and Family
"I love to entertain! Let's see, I really enjoy making anything I can early in the day or even the day before. That helps things be less stressful.
Also, occasionally we've done potluck type parties (we even did one for a birthday party but asked that no gifts be brought just a potluck dish) where one host doesn't have to be responsible for everything and that's helpful too!
I love the red, white and blue birthday! Those colors are just beautiful together as it is! I think you did an awesome job!
God bless,
Amanda"
"I'm a list junkie. I jot down everything I need to buy, make, decorate, guests, set up, and clean up. That way I don't forget anything.
I love your theme and can't wait to try the cake!!!!
sydney_canton@yahoo.com"
Mari
"Our family sticks to the potluck. Much easier on everyone budget. I like to leave clean up till everyone is gone then I don't have to stress everyone out by running around trying to keep things perfect.
I love your decorations, especially the drinks/punch bucket. Also, the mini burgers-too cute.
tophamfam@gmail.com"
"One thing that I do to make clean-up easier is to cover my platters in aluminum foil, so I don't even have to wash the dish when the party is over! I know it seems a bit wasteful, but I recently began purchasing the recycled foil. And, I try to recycle the foil by using it to cover up the take home plates we dish up for our guests.
My favorite thing about the party was that festive cake!! I am a huge fan of easy desserts and that looks like something I could whip up for guests quickly seeing as how we always have a stash of ice cream sandwiches and Oreos on hand..thanks to my husband's sweet tooth!!"
Stacy
"I create a birthday binder. It has all my necessary lists and budget pages but also tons of ideas that I gather through out the year from magazines, websites, newspaper ads. If I see a cute gift bag idea,a cute bday gift idea or wrapping idea or recipe or decoration, I will tear out and put it in my folder. Then when the time comes to plan, I pull out the binder and see what I have collected. Because the fun ideas are what makes it your own. And that is what is special about your party. You can see all the ways you gave the party your special touch. And those memories last forever."
Wendi
"I try to plan side dishes that can be made a day or so ahead of the party. When someone asked if they can bring something I always say yes! Even if it is nothing more then a bag of ice or a bag of chips it helps the budget and it one less thing for me to worry about.
I think it is great idea to mark your pictures. I read an article about someone that was in Europe and saw a store advertisement with a picture of a family. It just happened that the guy in Europe knew this family. The picture was that families Christmas picture!
The store owner said that he had gotten it off of the internet. She has a blog and assumes he got it from there. He immediately agreed to remove the picture, but can you imagine?!"
Linda Shifflett
"Your party looked very festive. You always have wonderful ideas with decorations and foods also. You must be a fun mother.
Well when I prepare for a party, I first make a list of food for the menu. Then I make a list of items that need to be bought at the store. I try to plan pasta salads, potato salads, deviled eggs, vegetable trays, etc. where these items can all be prepared the day before. Therefore on the day of the party, you only will have to prepare meats (hopefully, weather permitting) can be done on the grill. That way you can enjoy your guests and not be cooking and totally wore out before the festivities even begin. ENJOY THE PARTY!!!!!!!"
"Anything that can be prepped and frozen ahead of time I do. that way I can make meatballs etc a month ahead and grab them for the party.
I loved your galvanized bucket!
heatheranne226 (at) yahoo (dot) com"
Ellen C.
"I try to make simplier foods so that everyone is bound to find something they like. I also try to clean up a little through out the party. Thansk for the chance.
sweetascandy579 at yahoo dot com"
Nancy
"What a great party!! I loved those little burgers and will look for them at my local Walmart...
I try to get a good list made. From beginning to end a list will make it easier for me to focus."
anne
"We try to keep it simple and not invite a crazy amount of people. My kids are small, so usually family and cupcakes are the highlight."
Scrapmuch
"I keep skirt steaks and chicken breasts in marinade in the deep freeze (using a vacuum sealer) so they marinate while defrosting and then grill up quick for neighborhood get togethers!
love the cups from Walmart tip - Having a party in a few weeks for my dd and I'll be looking for those!!!
Also, I'll be doing the ice cream sandwich cake!"
Stacy
"I make preparing easier by starting early. I get everything that I can get done in advance done. That way, there's a lot less to do on the day of the party."
Bri
"I like to prepare the food early and make sure I clean as I go, this makes clean up later a lot easier!"
Mrs. Pear
"I try to do as much as I can in advance, and even think about my menu that way too. If I am serving hot stuff to I try to use my slow cooker so that the oven is not on and I can do it earlier. I just make it my goal to have as little to do as possible the day of the party.
Honestly, I love the cake best...of course I will be stealing the recipe..."
adrienne
"I love the slide show!
Because we had a huge party, we bought a sheet cake from Sam's and decorated it with our own marshmallow fondant decorations (made in advance): http://babytoolkit.blogspot.com/2008/09/not-quite-homemade-custom-decorating.html
The cake was personal with a fraction of the headache & mess."
Kristin
"I plan my menu a few weeks ahead and never turn down offers of those who want to bring something! I also try to do a few cold items so I can make ahead."
Jennifer, The Lady Riposter
"I like trying to keep some of the food very, very simple. Things I can prepare in advance or just throw together at the last minute. I also have no objection to buying a local bakery's rolls or something when I'm too lazy to bake my own!
I love the pail with the punch. It makes cleaning up easier and you don't have to worry about recycling all those cans. It sounds like a great party! I also think the idea of the slideshow was really great!
I think you had a great idea with the goody bags. They were all fun things that the kids would be able to use for 4th of July and you didn't spend a fortune on each child!"
Angie's Spot
"What a great party idea!! I actually had 2 favorites from the event. I love the video that you put together. Things like that will be treasured for many years to come! And I also loved the punch pail. That was a fabulous idea!"
thehomespunheart
"Amy! You know I love a theme birthday party and this turned out fabulous! Great job!
By the way, I'm sorry about your pictures, but it is in no way bothersome to have the credit there. The only thing that bugs me is that you have to do this due to people using them without credit!"
"Oooh I like Stacy's idea! The binder-THAT is something I've never thought of or heard of but makes SO much sense!
Hope you don't mind Stacy, I'm borrowing that one! LOL!"
Angel S.
"I like to prepare all that I can the day before. I try to stay with tried and true recipes with the exception of one new dish. Thanks! Your party looks like it was a hit!"
Bundled
"I think the best way I make planning for a party easier is to always make sure I don't over plan! I find that our friends always enjoy our layed back, relaxed party style the best. I stick to simple foods, easy drinks and not to fussy decorations. This way I have more time to enjoy the company :)
I love your party favor ideas .. the pinwheels are fantastic!"
"I make a detailed list in advance and then cross off as I go along. This has helped to avoid the last minute stresses."
Nancy M.
"I try to only invite a few people. I let my son pick 2 or 3 of his friends and the rest is family.
I love the cake you made! It sounds so awesome and easy!"
MariaK
"I have been inspired since reading your blog and have really embraced at home birthday parties. I love to enjoy my kids and all the effort I put into their parties so I make sure to prepare the whole week and prep the food prior to guest arrival. That way we all enjoy party!
mariakalina@ymail.com"
Amy
"Candy- The tin bucket and all of the party supplies (except for the Dollar Tree goodies for the party favors) came from Walmart. I just love the look of the red tin and I have already used it again for a playgroup at our home!
Thank you all for being understanding about the pictures too- it means a lot!"
Maria Donahue
"I am in love love LOVE with your napkin idea. I am having a girls night in a couple weeks and even though it's not fourth of july I still think it's perfect!"
Julia L.
"I precut anything that is time consuming. The day of the party, all I have to do is plate the fruits, veggies, cheese, etc. I only ever have 1 baked item since I only have 1 oven, and everything else needs to be stove-top cooked as I have 4 burners. That's typically how I manage the food for the party."
Meredith@MerchantShips
"I think this was one of your best parties to date! I love the bold color scheme.
I like your watermark--it fits your style yet remains discreet. I need to start doing that myself."
One Frugal Girl
"I tend to throw a lot of potlucks. This cuts down on the work of the host but also ensures that everyone enjoys what they eat. If nothing else, people can eat the dish they brought!
I liked your pinwheels. Very cute!"
Ginny
"Well making a list & starting to plan early is the best thing I can do. I love your party, my youngest is a July 3rd baby, so I will take some of your ideas! My favorite is the slide show though, love that idea!"
Katidids
"Like others have stated I like to prepare as much in advance as I can. I loved repurposing the cans for decorations!"
Wendy
"My best party tip is to enlist friends/families help. I assign my helpers a specific task and then I know things are covered!
I loved your party. But what really caught my eye was the wall decal (?) above your coat hooks. Very cute. Where did you get it?"
"Thank you so much for your recipes, I will have to try some. I also loved the pinwheels on the cake idea.
My tip is that I love to make lots of the decorations so I try to plan that way in advance so I am not rushed at the last moment when I am trying to spend time on the food prep. As well as I try to do the thank you gift bags ahead of time.
~Wendi
creativesouls @cox.net"
Katie @ goodLife {eats}
"Lists. I make lots of lists and plan what days I need to do what in advance. Also, if friends offer help with prep - take it!
Great job with the party! The cake is super cute!"
"If finances allow, especially at the holidays...I hit up Sam's club. Their hor d'overes (whatever) are delish.
dazl1@yahoo.com"
spclkk67@yahoo.com
"I just totally loved the silverware so cute!!"
Jenny
"The way we make parties easier is to have everyone contribute - whether it be a side dish, paper products or crafts for the kids. We're all family so no one minds helping!"
MoziEsmé
"I LOVE your party favors!
And one thing I've done so as not to break the budget - I check out a few stores ($ store, craft stores, etc.) and jot down items I like - and prices - at each store, rather than buy. I often come up with new ideas at the different stores that I hadn't thought of before.
After I've got the list, I can narrow down my theme and go with the best and most value-for-money items.
I've just wasted a lot of money in the past either going way overboard for a party or end up with stuff I don't use because my theme goes a different way than I originally thought."
Marie-Veronique
"My tip to make planning for my parties easier? I accept offers for help. It makes everyone feel more comfortable and allows me to concentrate on the people instead.
From your party, I love your idea of using silverware and having it ready in a little roll for everyone."
babyblooze liz
"I like brunch parties -- I made a strada which sits over night and you just need 1 hour in the over while you're putting the rest of the stuff (fruit, bagels, etc) out.
I liked your idea about the mini-burger buffet! And all the photos were just wonderful!"
Candace
"keep it simple & do as much as you can before hand."
Melissa
"First, THANKS for the opportunity to win!
I always try to prepare food items ahead of time - prepare the pasta and then place in the fridge until I am ready to toss with fresh ingredients, etc. Cut all veggies, etc. and place into ziploc baggies, etc.
I LOVED the pictures from your Sons birthday party - love the idea of the mini burgers with a "buffet" of items to put on your sandwich...again, its fun and easy!
THANKS for all of your great ideas!
Melissa"
Madilyns Place
"I always save the testing of new recipes for the family and use tested and loved recipes :) That eases on mishaps! I also keep a file of how the parties went and if it is an annual event - thoughts and changes for next year!"
CC
"I make everything at least one day ahead of time. Most of my parities are in the morning, so I have to be totally prepared to get up and just throw it together."
"Super cute party! Definitely some great ideas that I can use for my son's upcoming b-day. My favorite tip is to make a lot of lists, keep a to do calendar, and prepare early. About a month ahead of time I buy all paper products, table clothes, food, etc Also if family and friends offer to help and/or bring a dish I won't say no. Thanks again for the chance. nandjdonabar AT yahoo DOT com"
Kris
"I plan parties that allow a bulk of the work to be done in advance. I prep everything that can be completed the weekend before and put it in a corner and then plan out the schedule for the week to ensure I won't be rushing the day of.
I love that you do a video for each year. My daughter turns one in October and was thinking of something like that! I also love the drink container :)
kristilynngibson(at)gmail(dot)com"
Provthirty1gal
"As soon as I decide to have a party, I start making my lists. What to eat, what to drink, decorations, who to invite. I keep all of this together in a brightly colored, pocketed,labeled, 3 prong divider.
I then start saving ice. LOTS of ice. Lots and lots of ice! lol (be careful that you do not use inside-out bread bags, garbage bags (even new), or grocery bags. All of these can contain toxins.
As soon as I can, I start cooking the things I can freeze.
I really like to cook on the grill if at all possible; use it INSTEAD of the stove or oven. Less mess, cheaper, and a whole lot cooler. I am talking everything from pizza to casseroles.
I have also found deep fried foods are really quick and easy, and always tasty! (Yeah, I am from the south!)
And NEVER hesitate to ask for help. Have friends coming to the party do some of the cooking, decorating, whatever you need. A friend will be glad to pitch in, making them an even better friend, and yours an even better party."
Wanda
"Your party was awesome! I loved it! The food looked incredible and the cute kids were pretty sweet too.
I'm a southern girl....we do a blow out when we party. I will cook like mad and make much of the big things up ahead of time. This let's me have fun with my guests instead of stuck in the kitchen."
summer08
"Do NOT worry yourself to death! You should enjoy your party, rather than driving yourself crazy! My favorite thing is to do cloth napkins...they are inexpensive in the long run and add a touch of class!
Emily
emilyragland1@gmail.com"
Amy
"Wendy- My girlfriend sells Uppercase Living and I think it was about $20 for that one. I absolutely love it. They have a site- http://maryd.uppercaseliving.net/Home.m
Adorable stuff!!"
Heidi
"I usually try to prepare as much food ahead of time as possible.
I love your party idea, so cute!"
"I start shopping early, buying a little here and there to spread out the expense. I also plan anything that I can ahead of time, even what each family member will wear so that it's clean and ready to put on for the party. Whatever can be cooked in advance gets cooked and then plated on party day. I love the look of the pasta salad you did for Ethan's party. I've got it printed out and next time I shop I'll pick up black olives so I can give it a try. Can't wait! Thanks for the giveaway. Laura"
Kim Moldofsky
"I do most of the planning, though my husband handles drinks and always knows just how much food to buy (I usually want to get enough for a small army). He also does a lot of the heavy lifting and chair moving. Working as a team makes it easy for both of us."
Frugal in Virginia
"What a great party!
I plan my menu weeks in advance and then shop here and there as a I find time- and deals. Then a few days before the party I check my menu list and see what last minutes I need. At that point, I make one very small trip to pick up those extras."
kronca
"I am super organized. So for each kid (I have 3) they each have a party 'folder'. Every year, I staple a blank sheet on the top. All the important party details go on it. Guest list, food list, crafts, games, prizes and even my schedule. Inside the folder are any party notes (highlighted, of course), recipes, pictures, etc. This way, I can look at past years and see what has worked and what hasn't. I start planning for ideas about 2 months before.
I love your ice cream cake and plan to make it next week!!
steveroncas(at)embarqmail(dot)com"
Stacie B.
"I always have a birthday party at a place like Chuck E. Cheese. It saves me time an money for decorations, plates, etc., and I don't have to clean up afterwards. Quick and easy is how I like it, and so does my son!"
Ashley McCormack
"I start buying everything early and double checking that I have everything so we don't have to be running to the grocery store a million times that day."
"My parties are a bit easier every year because I write lots of lists for each party with ingredients, decorations, etc. Then I file them away and pull them out the next year. This way I don't have to start with a blank sheet of paper when it's time to plan another party."
"There is definitely something to be said for any menu items that can be prepared the day before!!! It is so simple but truly ingenious!!
ajmorris11@gmail.com"
"Planning early and for my toddler's birthday that's coming up, we're avoiding meal time. That will allow us to keep things simple by only serving cake, ice cream and drinks.
I love your cake idea. The pinwheels are super cute!"
Virginia
"I do everything possible starting the week before so I will not be stressed out when it is time for the party. That way I enjoy everything as well."
Kristy
"I prepare for a party by doing as much as I can ahead of time, from cooking to decorating to preparing thank you cards.
I loved your party. My birthday is a couple of days after the 4th too and I never knew how to throw a patriotic party that was more brithday than 4th. You did it perfectly and I loved the money saving tips.
ksieker(at)hotmail(dot)com"
"Make any food that you can the day before, that way you have more time to spend with your guests the day of the party!
I loved the pinwheel idea...and your photography of the party was AWESOME! Great work out of you!
dawndra8@hotmail.com"
"I can't found out where to sign up for the patio party giveaway"
Melanie
"When planning for a party, I start a couple of weeks early for big ones like milestone birthdays and h.s. graduation. If it is a simpler get to gether, I start 4 or 5 days before. I plan my menu first then get out all of the serving dishes. I even label them with sticky notes as to what food goes in which dish. The more organized I am the more I enjoy the party.
I thought your pinwheels at graduated lenghts was a great idea for topping the cake!
Melanie@Bella~Mella"
"Before our parties start, I print out little tags for food items that people may not be familiar with or that are covered so that people can help themselves easier.
I loved your pinwheel favors - kids love pinwheels and I suspect they were affordable to. Nice!"
"We live in a 1 br apartment in the heart of the city, so space is limited. To make parties easier we usually do pot-luck buffet style parties."
barbara
"I use paper goods to save on the clean up, also make foods in advance. This looked like a fun party."
"I like to have each of my kids be involved with some part of holiday and party planning. They may choose to help decorate or make one of the food items.This helps our family create great memories of time spent together"
Nicole M.
"Whenever we have a party, I try to make everything "semi-homemade". that definitely saves a lot of time in the kitchen.
nicole_melnick at yahoo dot com"
Amy @ Puppy Tufts
"I like to plan ahead of time for what I will need. Then prepare as much ahead of time as possible so I can have fun too.
I love the whole 4th theme. The slide show is a very nice present that can be cherished as they grow older."
Brandon and Christi Tyler
"Delegating is always fun to do because other people will often bring things that you never thought of. Plus it helps alleviate some of the hard work going into planning a party!"
"I try to do whatever I can in advance, so the day of..I have a lot less stress! I also write down a plan so I remember everything I need to buy at the store, and what I need to do and when!
shannonniquette@aol.com"
"I make a detailed list of everything needed at least a week before the party. And I cook early!
That cake looks yummy!
Celia
~oshiekosh @ yahoo dot com"
DJ's Creations
"I always bake the cake early and freeze it. We also split up the food items between family members to make it easier to the birthday mom. Your party was great with the red, white and blue. Your choice of party favors is great. I know several stores that sale the braclets 10 for $1. The pinwheels are also very cute."
"I have two boys with the same birthday and their father's birthday happens to be 3 days later. Then my daughter's birthday is 4 days before Christmas and mine is 4 days after. So I have two different weeks that I must be VERY organized, well budgeted, calm, and prepared.
With the two boys I usually let them each pick a theme, they each need to feel "their" day is special. Then I decorate one room in the house with one boys theme and one room with another. Each boy has their own cake that I make.
I am buying supplies throughout the year as I can. I try to buy plain colored plates, cups and napkins and then when they decide on a theme I only buy one pack of each of the themes item to mix in with the plain ones. It was the same with my daughters birthday parties. My husband and I are usually very "ok" with not having a birthday cake on our birthday since we just had so much cake a few days earlier, so I usually try to make ice cream sundaes or cookies or something else for our birthday. For food we usually have cook out style with side dishes of pastas, beans, chips.
I loved your little baskets with prewrapped silverware and goodybags.
cbre101022 (at) rocketmail (dot) com"
Faith
"I always do everything I can in advance so that most everything is ready to go and I can try to enjoy the party with my guests. For some parties it can be appropriate to ask others to bring something to share to take the burden off of the host for everything."
Casey and Karen
"I haven't prepped for many parties, but I know that when I do (baby's first birthday is in a few months!) I will start early and keep it simple. I really liked your punch idea! Very cute party!"
"I clean one are of the house per day, starting the week before the party, working on the areas that will be used the least first. Example: Monday, clean the upstairs bathroom. Tuesday, vaccum upstairs. Wednesday, clean kitchen floors. Thursday, vaccum downstairs. Friday, clean downstairs bathroom. That way the whole house has been cleaned so I just need to spot clean before the party itself."
tdamron
"MAKE A LIST!!! This helps so much. Like other people have said, keep the menu simple. Guests are not going to judge you because you only have a couple main dishes & side items and a few drink choices.
Also, TAKE SOME DEEP BREATHS! Remember why you are doing this party and it is not worth stressing out about. As long as everybody is together and happy, that's all that should matter to you. Remember that your guests won't notice all those little things that are stressing you out."
"Cute Party and lots of great ideas! My daughter turned 1 on July 7th, so I will be planning a patriotic party next year...inspired by yours! Thanks for sharing!
Margie O.
outten5@atlanticbb.net"
Kimberly
"Our family has a huge 4th of july get together every year. During the year my mom buys items in red, white or blue and mixes the decorations up. (blue tablecloth with red plates and white napkis) It looks so patriotic!"
Robyn
"Don't forget to ask the kids, hubby, family, friends help get everything prepared and set up hand out a to do list to them all. It's always a for sure that you have forgot something, I have learned that no one knows you forgot so to fret about it and enjoy YOUR party"
Nikki
"I prepare by looking throuhg crafting magazines for do it yourself decoration ideas and always save things I think can be used later, neat containers for unique wrapping ideas."
andrea v
"I do as much as possible ahead of time. I also buy items on clearance and try to use them as party favors and decorations."
"well i always get my preparations done the night before and especially when i know i am planning a party, i start buying things in bulk (like plates, cups etc.) i also buy drinks that are on sale 5 for 11$ i will purchase about 10 all different flavors. i also use old wrapping paper and tissue paper for decorating the table and or displays!"
Jaimee
"I try to always make the cake the day before. I always do fun themed cakes so it is a big relief not to stress about that on the actual day.
For your party, I love the simple $1 favors....it's always hard to come up with stuff that seems good enough without spending lots of money!"
"These gloves can be used in SOOO many ways besides dishes. How about potting up your plants in spring? Cleaning the boat in summer? How about cleaning your teenage sons bathroom after several friends have spent the night?
So many ways to use a wonderful product!"
CrystalGB
"I plan my menu way in advance of party and pick as many dishes that I can to make ahead. I make a list of all the items that I have to buy to take to the store with me.
I use paper plate/napkins and plastic cups so I don't have to wash so many dishes after the party."
"I prepare ahead of time.
I like that you reuse untensils!
joymisa(at)aol(dot)com"
"I need to make lists for everything needed for a party or I'm lost. I like to prepare the food ahead of time & freeze it. I've made pound cake topped with whipped cream, strawberries & blueberries for the flag, but your ice cream cake looks easy to do & yummier too! Love the red, white & blue pinwheels - aren't Dollar Stores great? Thanks for tips & giveaway!
vinter@warwick.net"
Mel4Him
"I usually start a few weeks early by making a list of the things I am going to need and buying all of those items at least a week in advance. That way I can also look for coupons and deals for this things I may need to buy like decorations and party supplies. Since most of my sons birthdays have been out of the home, I also keep a list of all the things I am going to need to bring with me to the place of celebration. Last year it was at the movie theater. And I always prepare goody bags at least 3 days ahead. I also place thank you cards in the goody bags. That way I don't have to worry about doing them later or forgetting to do them.
BTW, great job putting together a wonderful gathering for your son."
"I like to make a list a check everything off.And if anyone asks if they can help I let them.I used to do it all on my own.Now with three little ones I need all the help I can get.
I love the patriotic theme.Now that I finally have a summer baby I'm going to use it next year.Thanks for all the tips.Kim"
NaPr
"Love all you ideas for your patriotic party. Looks like you had a fun day. Would love to do the same. I always keep things simple when I am entertaining. Alot of store bought appetizers."
"The biggest thing I do when having parties is to write lists! It helps keep me organized! Sometimes I look thru sites, blogs, or call my good friend Jessica for some cool ideas!
I really liked your party favors! I love favors, because everyone likes getting things! Super fun!
tmongaraz@yahoo.com"
Melissa
"I only use character paper products for the cake and use a generic white or coordinating color that I got on sale to save money. To make things easier since we have late fall and winter birthdays, I make soup and chilli which can be made the day before. Plus people can also have chili dogs."
NaPr
"Your party looks wonderful. I try and keep things real easy by buying alot of premade appetizers at the grocery store, etc. I love the idea of those mini burgers. I am going to have to look for those."
Jennifer
"It is always fun to try new recipes. I will have to give your salad a try"
Margaret
"I prepare as much as possible beorehand and freeze it. I also try to have family members share the burden and prepare their specialties.
I loved your party ideas. Thank you."
Hanson Girl
"I loved the pinwheel candles on the cake, great idea!"
"I make lists. Lists of who's invited, the dishes I'm preparing (that way none accidentally get left in the fridge or oven!), the decorations, timetables, etc. I don't have to remember everything, I just consult my list."
Kim
"Start planning EARLY and try to keep it simple! Loved your punch idea (easy for everyone to just help themselves) and the music video is a great idea/tradition."
The Poulters
"I actually liked the feet picture the best. That is so summer.
Party tip - keep it simple. Too many activities draw away from the simple spontaneity that is children."
IrisGretel
"lists lists lists !!!"
Rigby Family
"I love to scour the internet for other people's ideas. It makes my brain have to work less. Then, I am the queen of lists...when to do certain things, what I need to buy, what I need to do, etc."
Danielle
"Making lists is so helpful for me when preparing for a party!
daniellek01 at yahoo dot com"
"I always have extended family members assigned to different duties during the party so that I'm not going crazy doing everything.
I love your cute gift bags and was happy to hear you could find the items at the dollar store! :) thanks!"
"I have twins with special needs so they don't have alot of friends to invite to a party. Instead we always take them somewhere. Their birthday is near spring break so we coordinate the two. As simple as a day at the zoo w/ picnic lunch to Disneyland this year. They always remember their birthdays. P.S. I loved the pin wheels.
Mrspoofa@aol.com"
Melissa P.
"i try and cook early and freeze as much as possible. i also do the general house cleaning ahead of time so i the day of or before i only have to do final decorating touches.
great giveaway, i would love to win! lissalists (at) gmail"
JC the catlady
"I would cook the salads ahead of time so I could enjoy the party. The pasta look really good and I will try it soon."
mailmichal
"I shop the clearance section in the local party store. I have picked up invitations, thank you cards, napkins, favors and other stuff for as low as 25 cents each."
Katie
"I get all the prep work, decorating, and make-ahead dishes done a day or more before the party. Then the day of the party I get EVERYBODY to help out in whatever ways they can! Your mini burgers look so great!
katiekarr at gmail dot com"
Christie
"My mother-in-law is the queen of entertaining... I always loved the fact that she spends the whole time actually fellowshipping, so she taught me how to do as much prep work beforehand so that I can actually enjoy everyone!
I LOVE the pinwheels on the cake... what a CUTE idea! :) Your pictures are all so beautiful!"
"My DH and I use an excel spreadsheet to plan the days leading up to the party, the food and who is responsible etc.
I LOVE your idea of the patriotic punch instead of soda cans. Better for kids, budget etc! :)"
Karin
"Make a list-- have family help -- we have a lot of potluck get togethers with family. It works out well when one person isn't responsible for all of the food."
Tracy
"Prepare as much as I can ahead of time! If we are hosting, definitely get help from my husband and kids to clean and pick up the house. Also prepare as much food as possible so I can enjoy the party and mingle with the guests. Who wants to be stuck in the kitchen while everyone else is out in the yard having fun?"
shannon
"I love your pinwheels! I make party prep easier by making as many things ahead of time as possible and highering the neighbor girl as party prep helper!"
Jon and Lacey
"This is my first time visiting your blog - love it! Like many other readers mentioned, I do as much food prep ahead of time as I can. I wrap presents soon after I buy them so I don't have to think about it. It's important to us to keep things simple, yet fun and personalized.
I love your idea for a 3-minute slide show!
laceyrose.1 (at) juno (dot) com"
"Hi-I start cooking the night before and I enlist reliable friends and family to help me before, during and after the party
Chris at hgrullon@msn.com"
drpepper
"I try to get more people involved before the party. That way we have a party before the party."
amanda
"I recruit a friend to help with keeping the plates full on the buffet and cleaning up. I never double recipes because we never need too much of any one thing- people like variety. And, I shower first thing the morning of the party- otherwise I'm always in the shower when the guests arrive!"
"I stock up on crayons, colored pencils, markers, etc at Back-to-school sales and save them for goodie bags for my kids birthdays. Last year boxes of Crayola crayons or colored pencils were 24 cents each!! Every kids loves new art supplies."
"When we have our summer birthday parties and get togethers, we love to use Renold's Foil Wrap to wrap our Cod/Tilapia fish, oranges/lemons and seasonings, before grilling on the grill. It takes little time and there's basically no cleanup, b/c you can eat right out of the Foil wrap. We also love to clean up our grill using Playtex's Handsaver gloves (so I don't get the black stuff on my hands and under my nails)...I keep 2 pairs, one is desiginated for the grill and the other set is used for when I am mopping the floors, cleaning the bathroom, etc... I would love to try out their new gloves and see how I can use them in my daily life as a stay-at-home mom.
I truly loved you sharing your recipes for your July 4th parties and loved the silverware wraps and cake. I am ready to try out the recipes and have some family and friends come over for another cookout. Thanks for sharing."
Time4mom2
"Dad always bakes a special cake for the kids and decorates it ~ whatever they want! He done a hot wheels cake, high heel and telephone cake and power ranger too! We always have the person's favorite meal or restaurant dinner!"
utrend
"One way I make preparing for my parties easier is not shying away from some "pre done" things. I decide what I want to do from scratch and what I feel comfortable just buying. I remember I only have some much time and money, so I make desserts from scratch I tell myself it's OK if pre-dinner nibbles come from the store.
What I liked about your party is it wasn't just food; you seemed to have set a whole mood with your small details."
Anne
"I make ahead what I can--either freeze it, put it in the fridge or put it in the crockpot. I choose foods that don't need much last minute prep.
And I have my kids help me clean."
Julie
"Hosting an outdoors pool party is always easier than something indoors - this is my tip (so much less stress as the house needs to be clean yet not "deep down" clean since everyone will be outside most of the time)
I love the slide show you make for your kids.
babyfeb19 at yahoo dot com"
Britney
"One of the coolest ideas I've used lately.......Up to an hour before the party, scoop your ice cream and put each scoop into it's own compartment in a muffin pan...... Then when all the kiddos are wanting ice cream with their cake you just pop the scoop out!...... SOOOO much easier than fighting with rock hard tubs of ice cream...."
Lemka
"Spritz your flower beds and mulch with the garden hose 1hr. to 30 min. before guests arrive. Its a quick and easy way to freshen up your backyard."
Stephen and Amanda O'Dair blog
"I had a Patriotic party this year on the 4th for my son his birthday was the 8th and we felt it was perfect to do it this day. I so wish i would of saw this blog first for more idea! Now I know about this sight and will be back!"
Blommom
"We go EASY. It is so tempting to do too much for a kids party, so we stick with the basics."
jbubolz-miller
"Everything is ready ahead of time and I ask if say an aunt or grandma doesnt mind coming the day before so DH and I can get everything done in time for the party! I loved the cake you made- I think I might have that at DS's party. thanks for the idea!"
Deb
"Like a lot of other people, I try to prepare as many items a day ahead of time. Actually, a lot of things taste better if they have been refrigerated overnight! I love the pictures from your son's birthday party!"
Sara
"I think the best thing we do to prepare for parties is to tag team watching the kids/preparing things for the party...if we take turns getting things done it usually goes much smoother."
Angel
"I find success when I can balance being prepared and being laid back. If I get too worked up about the details and the prep work, I have a hard time relaxing and having fun. Sometimes less is more. I figure my level of relaxation and fun will ultimately affect my guests!
I loved your pinwheels on the cake and the mini burger idea. Will have to try that for my next party."
waiseone
"What a great party - My daughter's birthday is on the 3rd so I'm going to "borrow" some of your ideas. Thanks!"
Kim and Troy
"I buy party supplies ahead of time and when they are on sale or clearance. That way I don't have to pay high prices at the last minute. I can usually plan the party theme around things that I already have on hand."
Becca
"Loved your patriotic theme. I try to cook as much as I can ahead of time. Loved the idea of the movie. Will try the Pesto Salad and the cake."
Tracy
"To make our parties easier, I try to prepare as much food as I can the day before.
4heartbeats@gmail.com"
Tracy
"I think that your cake looks so yummy.
4heartbeats@gmail.com"
Rachael
"I set out all the serving platters the night before with post-it notes on what will go where.
I loved your decorations."
"I ask my guests to bring a prepared dish and then it seems to keep everything simple. I also shop around and buy supplies when I find things on sale. Dollar Tree and Goodwill are also good places to get items."
*carrie*
"Amy,
How funny--I was going to write a comment and then realized (bonus!) that it's also a giveaway!
I love these ideas. My favorite thing is the wrapped utensil sets. I'd like to try that sometime as we host lots of get-togethers. I also think the cake sounds delicious--thanks for the ideas!"
"I lay out things that I can the night before. And if something goes in a big dish I'll put a post it note on it with what goes in it, so I, or whoever is helping me, will know where to put it. I also write everything down that needs to be done when I'm first planning an event, so that later I won't forget the small things that make it special.
blondnfiesty (at) yahoo (dot) com"
Cyndi
"I make my own cakes, to save on time decorating and to personalize it I go to my local grocery bakery and they will take a picture and turn it into an edible print to go on top of the cake! My kids love this, as I use a picture of them and it is inexpensive and very cute! Everyone always comments on how original and what a great idea!"
"I like to use the crockpot to do alot of the work for me at my kids parties. We've done BBQ one year, made brats and hot dogs and then kept them all warm in the crockpot, I'm done chili and taco soup once, it lets you enjoy the party and not have to worry that the food is getting cold. About your party, I LOVE the slide show idea. I always see these playing at weddings and I'm even seen them at funerals but I LOVE the idea of doing one yearly at a birthday party. Great idea, thanks for sharing! :) JSPatterson2003@yahoo.com"
kim
"I try and do as much cooking a prep-work the week of th eparty so I can enjoy myself the day of!
I love how everthing looks for yours, especially the sandwiches..YUM!"
Penny
"I love having parties and usually host a couple a year. I made up a little book to help me plan my parties. I decide on a theme, write the theme down then make a menu and a list of things to buy. Have a guest list so I know how many people to plan for and also have a place to write down what other people are bringing so I don't have a lot of the same thing."
Christine Zibas
"I like to pick a theme early (as far in advance as possible). That way, it gives me time to look for party bargains (based on my theme) and come up with more related games, items or goodie bags, and food and decorating ideas. I love to make crafts and having a lot of time allows for projects related to the party I might not have time for, if I am scrambling at the last minute to pull a party together.
Christine Z
czibas@mail.com"
jldjones
"I try to make everything ahead of time. I also only make cold appetizers so I am not heating things up at the last minute when guests are arriving."
cjcmommy
"Well, my son's birthday is the
24th and I am going to make this cake. (I have seen the "Birthday Cake ice cream sandwiches at
Wal-Mart and I may try to change it just a bit) We normally do a pool party with food. It never fails, it rains on his birthday. One year we had Spaghetti, Lasagna, bread and salad. That one worked well because I could do it all ahead of time except the bread. But normally we do the hamburgers & hotdogs, chips, baked beans, tea, & Soda. I remember one year I put a bunch of Icies & drinks (pouch drinks)in a big round tub filled with Ice. That way the kids could run up and get what they wanted. That worked well but next time I would skip the icies, they melt even in ice when your birthday is in July and outside.
Money it tight this year so it will be scaled down to just me, my mom, my brother his wife & 2 kids. (I am hoping so anyway)Thanks for the cake idea, I had told him I would have to make his cake this year so this will be a surprise."
John, Heather
"Lists...lot and lots of lists.. Write any and everything down that comes to mind and that way you don't forget it. From groceries, to games, to favors and decorations."
"I always have a theme for my parties ... then I always make a list!
tlconcannon@yahoo.com"
"To make parties easier to prepare for I keep a list and I enlist help.
I loved your idea of making a slide show each year for your kids."
"I try to prepare as much food ahead of time, so the day of the party there is less to do."
"I find that if I make a list of all the things I need to buy and do, and then transfer that list to my date planner but putting each of the items on a particular date, that it keeps everything in order and a timeline has been set. I try to do this at least 2 weeks before the party."
Rachel Phelan
"I learned this year to freeze the cake a day before. I had read about it, but decided not to do it. In hindsight, I realize that it would have made it A LOT easier to frost the cake. I loved your patriotic themed party. My daughter's b-day is the day before the 4th and you've inspired me to do a patriotic party. I loved your food choices, especially the mini hamburgers! That way guests can eat more choices without feeling too full. Your video was also a great idea that I'll have to implement as well. Good job on everything!"
Dana
"I love your idea of making a video. Since I never seem to get the scrapbooks done, this is a fun and easier way to recap the years events. Thanks for sharing. Great idea ."
"What a great party! I clean up as I go. That way I don't have to spend a lot of time during and after the party on clean up. This allows me to enjoy the party, too. I love your pinwheels. They always make me happy. A great party favor and very decorative! Also like your idea for a beverage container instead of pop cans and your pasta salad recipe is one I would like to try.
crisp(underscore)stephanie(at)hotmail(dot)com"
johnson401
"Make your child feel like they came up with the party theme by giving them 2 or 3 ideas to chose from...makes them feel like it was all their idea. love the patriotic cake!!"
MomGoingCrazy
"During cooler months we have parties in our garage. Luckily I have an anal husband so it is always clean. The kids have a blast decorating for different themes.
I LOVE IT because .... NONE OF THE PARENTS worry about spills or messes. After the party we just spray it out the door!
The first time I felt funny entertaining in a garage but, once I saw how relaxed everyone was INCLUDING ME ... it became a tradition."
Victoria
"I like to prepare as much as I can the day before. There are alway unexpected things that come up the day of the party and this way I have less to contend with."
"Your party has some great ideas! My whole family plans and prepares for our parties. We share the duties, and each shop for items to bring.
shschaumburg@aol.com"
"As a single father of two boys; ages four and five with limited freetime to plan far enough ahead I have come up with the perfect strategy. Instead of always being polite and refusing offers of help from guests; I have started asking them to bring a dish or accessory item in lieu of a gift. This helps bridge my discomfort of having to ask for help and also relieves our guests of having to purchase a gift for our parties. Love your themed birthday party! (kendepew@msn.com)"
"Love the theme idea, I love the dollar store so alll of the party favorites are the best!!! When i shop for other kids I shop there and get 20 different items so they have alot to open and all for $20, SO ITS A REALLY GREAT IDEA TO GET STUFF FROM THERE!!!
kmbtm_97@yahoo.com"
Teena
"I decorate the night before. I also become my own sous chef and do all the prep the day before. Then I am free to join the party!"